This is my second Mother’s Day without my mom. Today, I’m reflecting on the many ways she shaped who I am, both personally and professionally.
Kathleen Boland Schwanz died on December 17, 2023. Some days, it feels like she’s been gone for nearly two years. Other days, I think about calling her to share my news.
She taught me countless lessons through her words and actions. Here are just a few:
Drama
Mom was involved in community theater and started coaching me on speaking skills when I was in middle school.
“Enunciate!” she’d say.
When I joined forensics in junior high, she became my personal coach.
Years later, I coached professionals for client interviews. Now I present Architecture/Engineering/Construction groups about case studies and related issues.
Thanks for the early lessons, Mom.
Journalism
I grew up in a family of journalists, including my parents and several relatives. Two were journalism professors. My parents met at Iowa State while working as editors on the school newspaper. I’m one of four children, and all of us pursued careers in communication.
My dad published Farmer’s Digest magazine as a side business years ago, and my mother managed its business operations.
In high school, I considered becoming a teacher, but ultimately earned both a bachelor’s degree and a master’s degrees in journalism.
Follow Your Passions
My mom loved golf and played into her 80s. I was never a golfer, but I’ve always enjoyed dancing. When I was a child, Mom chauffeured me to weekly dance lessons.
My parents often had dinner parties where the after-dinner entertainment was a dance lesson in our basement.
For the past 25 years, I’ve participated in women’s dance groups, and still enjoy the movement and camaraderie.
Celebrate Family
Mom believed in making celebrations—especially Christmas—very special. She decorated the home, prepared delicious meals, and chose thoughtful gifts. Her grandchildren and great-grandchildren brought her great joy.
Set Goals
Mom encouraged all of us to pursue our dreams. She remained generous with praise and loving words even in the final months of her life.
I know I was blessed to have her love and support.
Mom, I still miss you and think of you often.
Happy Mother’s Day!
What did your mom teach you that still resonates today? I’d love to hear your reflections.
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